Sex, Love, and Relationships
You just might discover something unexpected on this journey.
Written By Godam
Updated 4/13/2023
Why not love more? “I love you! No Big Deal.” I find myself reading this blog post about casual love from Carsie Blanton just about once a year. It is a good reminder that love is not dangerous and happens at the best and worst of times.
When you spend lots of time with anyone your bound to have some feelings come up for one or all of you. When you connect and play with others, you are in some cases you're literally putting your life into another person's hands. When you navigate this time and time again, that deep trust that you build can naturally turn into other feelings.
Oftentimes I see people put up boundaries or get upset about catching feels. But it's completely normal! Just because you have feelings doesn't mean anyone has to do anything about it. Take it as a compliment and enjoy it.
https://www.carsieblanton.com/blog/post/82149148832/casual-love
Though you might not identify as a dancer. I think that this article can apply to rope people too. Read the article for what it is and see how it might apply to you. Try to read it keeping in mind that the word "dancer" can be replaced with things like "rope top, rigger, top, or rope bottom, rope bunny, person in rope, bottom, model, etc" and the word "dance" perhaps replaced with "scene, rope, or event, etc"
Like dance, rope is a physical and oftentimes social experience. Learning your love language can help you find others of like mind or desire. It can also give you a better understanding of what you get out of these kinds of activities and what you might need to watch out for in yourself.
Also let's face it… There is so much overlap with everything and as human beings we can apply most things with a different lens. It's an important skill to be able to apply different perspectives, ideas, and information to your own situation.
https://danceplace.com/grapevine/the-love-languages-of-dance/