Gear for bondage

There are endless possibilities in the kind of gear you might need for your shibari adventure. Here is a list of the things I have used and where you might find it.

*You do not need to buy or have any of the things listed in this article. I wrote this so I can keep a log of the things I have used and share with you to help along your Shibari Adventure. Please do your own research and get the things that work best for you and your style.*

Written By Godam
Updated 4/11/2023


For safety cutters there are too many options to list. The ones that I have used and like are:

Good old fashioned safety shears. Inexpensive, available from a variety of places, and come in many colors and styles. I got a 3 pack from Amazon and keep one pair in each of my rope kits. Yes, you can have them in your carry-on when flying. I recommend getting bright colors so you don’t lose them outdoors or in a dark dungeon.

Gerber Strap Cutter is another I really like and recommend. Great for cutting rope or straps or even plastic wrap that is close to the body in case of emergency. I don’t recommend flying with it internationally with your carry-on. (Ask me how I know…)  For the cost it is a very nice addition to any play bag.

If you work with lots of pallet or plastic wrap I recommend getting something like the Gerber Vital Zip cutter. This is great because the blade is replaceable for when it inevitably gets dull. Cuts very fast. The biggest issue with this tool is that you have to watch out for small parts of the body (fingers and toes) getting into the mouth of this cutter. It will cut you if you're not careful!

If you're like me and want to be “fancy” (AKA collect all the fun tools), I recommend checking out the Leatherman Raptor. I got mine for around $120 way back when. Nowadays there are off brand ones that are way more affordable (and look the same)! I don’t fly with these unless I check a bag. It's a very handy tool but make sure you and your partners are familiar with how to use it.


If you want a suspension (shibari) ring I got mine (a long time ago) from Agreeable Agony. You can find others from other Etsy shops and many places that sell rope for bondage. Also check out eBay. I have seen people use playground equipment or things for acrobatics as rings too. Regardless of where you get these from, just to make sure they are safe to carry weight.

I have almost entirely moved away from suspension rings. These days I mostly use a rigging plate and carabiners. There are many options for rigging plates and can be found at most places that sell climbing equipment. They are less aesthetically pleasing for some but the biggest selling point for me is that they are both lightweight and strong.


There are WAY too many options out there for carabiners with tons of colors, shapes, uses, and features. Make sure you find carabiners that are rated in the KNs and will work for you and your needs.

I started with a cheap set of wire gate carabiners. Though they worked for me for many years, I had problems with the rope jamming due to the shape.

I recently fell in love with these Locking Carabiners from REI. There are other brands with this exact shape too, but the important part for me is the design. They don’t have a tooth to snag the rope and almost never jam because of the larger radius and flat shape. I’ve gone back and bought 20 of them.

I also have some Autolock Carabiners I got from RW rope. They are great for creating up-lines in outdoor spaces and for circus rope where people are twisting and turning and you want to make sure the carabiner doesn’t come undone. You can find them anywhere climbing gear is sold.


Swivels are a fun addition to any point. I use them primarily with circus rope where spinning and twisting are to be expected. I got mine from RW rope but they no longer sell the kind that I have. The ones I have kind of look like these from Amazon but you can get swivels from anywhere that sells climbing equipment. Again, just make sure they are rated in the KN! Don’t use the ones found at hardware stores.


I don’t see marlin spikes used much these days, but they can be a handy tool for getting knots undone (or for poking your partner). I got mine handmade from a Rochester-based metal forger. You can find these anywhere that climbing or fishing gear is sold.


There are so many options for straps. They’re available just about anywhere that sells climbing equipment. I wanted something rated and cheap so I could put them in trees or places that might be damaging to my rope. I just picked up Nylon Sling Runners from Amazon: 12 inch and 24 inch. If I were to only buy one of these again I would stick to buying the 24 inch straps and maybe a few even larger ones. The 12 inch ones are a little short for my liking.


If you're looking for the tripod that I am using, I have this UBeesize 62" Phone Tripod. Well worth it. It travels well and has been really great for taking videos and pictures on my phone.


If you're looking for Bamboo, definitely check flamingbamboo out. The piece I got from them is beautiful, strong, and works beautifully for bondage. There may be restrictions to shipping it outside of the US so just look out for that. Make sure you get the ones made for shibari.


I love this rig! I got mine from Uplift Active and has been one of the best investments I have made for myself in my shibari adventure. It's portable, rated, and perfect for my dynamic needs. It is an investment though! I waited until they had a sale (during Black Friday) to get mine and I have zero regrets. The only downside to this rig is that it’s difficult to set up without a second pair of hands and like all rigs it’s heavy. It does come with a well made, tight fitting carrying case and sand bags (without the sand) if you want to get dynamic!


Lighting I have been using this miroco lamp for most of my lighting since we don’t have much sunlight in Rochester. It has been very helpful in the dark winter months and also doubles for more natural lighting for my photos.

I recently purchased new lights from amazon. Not bad for the cost! the cord is not very long so you have to use an extension cord.


Pulleys/block and tackle are new to me; I’ve just started getting into them. So as I learn more, this recommendation may change. I got two Crevasse Rescue Pulleys from REI as a gift from a partner and I am excited to do some high altitude things after I learn the safest ways to use them.